The rituals that are performed have a purpose even when it is not clearly understood. But they tend to be common. Although some rituals are not common. Unique is unique although it can be mimicked it is mimicked therefore secondary. If a behaviour is strange because no one does it in sight. Whether with respect or not, it is a observed by the living. Death is the reality that can trigger things that have a structure of repetition a mimicking of a kind….. Loss has more than one face or guises but it has power to trigger the unique which is singular. Like those who make a difference, which is not for repeating or can not be depending on your position. Light lost is darkness.